If you are already in your 20s, it's hight time to think about the future. You should know that 80 percent of the fateful events occur precisely at this time. However, many people tend to waste this amazing time. In this article, we gathered seven important things you should do before your 30s.
Scientists have found that the brain develops especially actively before 30 years old. At this time, the largest number of neural connections are formed, which means that any practice will be beneficial. After 30 years old, the brain will still be plastic, but such a number of neural connections can no longer be expected. So the first thing to do all the time in this important decade is to train and upgrade yourself.
Don’t try to do everything at once. Approach the choice of your future career as consciously as possible. First of all, you should do what you like. Don’t listen to those who say that you can’t make money from your favorite occupation or that it is completely unpromising. Psychologists have found that a person who has been working at least an unwanted job for at least 9 months can catch a wave of depressive moods and feel a strong decline in motivation.
Building a career is more like a marathon than a sprint. If in this important decade you will only endlessly try yourself in different professions, then by the age of 40 you risk having nothing. In your 40s, you will regret that you didn’t start to build a career earlier. It’s better not to take on casual work but choose a direction as soon as possible and move in it. If you start building a career much later than your peers, then you can develop slower.
You can change your life at any age, it is not too late to do this at either 50 or 60 years old. But if you take a good look at the biographies of prominent people, you can see that they commit the most fateful acts before either 30s. You can visit another country, lease a car, or start practicing yoga. After the age of 35, you will only strengthen what has already been created.
Take the time and effort to invest in yourself. Invest in as many resources as possible in your own development. People who understand the importance of self-development earlier than others, can more effectively achieve goals and become more self-confident. In order to take the first step, think about how much time you spent reading books this month.
They say that the key quality of wise leaders is their ability to know their strengths and weaknesses. It would be a great step if you manage to get to know yourself a little bit before the age of 30 and get an answer to the question: Who am I?
This is the question that you will ask yourself constantly throughout your life, up to but 30 it is better to at least roughly understand what kind of person you are. Sometimes in order to understand who you are, you need to understand who you are not. That’s why it is better not to judge yourself too harshly when difficult times of self-identification come through denial.
Responsibility tends to be one of the most important qualities that come in handy. Personal responsibility begins with the realization that your life depends on you. Even if some kind of injustice has affected you, you always have the right to choose how to relate to it.