Try finding some organic Coconut or Jojoba oil. Both are very unlikely to clog pores and provide fantastic slip, as well as nourish the skin. I always find massage creams sink into the skin too much during the length of a facial massage.
Use Solvaderm brand products which are clinically researched and also recommended by dermatologists.
I use grapeseed oil for my facial massage. I buy it in bulk from Bon Vital.